This is the final post in a two-part series by Peter Aldin from Great Circle.
As a life-coach, my service is difficult to define, and this is largely because its usefulness (& therefore my service) will differ according to the individual client. So I hate it when – early on in a conversation with a stranger – I am asked “So what do you do for a living?”
When I meet someone new, I seize the day quickly and become curious about them. (It helps that I am genuinely curious about human beings and that I’ve been brought up to place high value on the individual). Let’s say I’m having a conversation where I’m beginning to see where I could be of service to new acquaintance: they’ve made it known (inadvertently) that one of their goals in life is to get a job which is more meaningful to them. When it comes my turn to answer the “What do you do for a living” question, I might say “I help people who are in career transition to get out of a crappy role and into a more satisfying one.” I leave it at that, and wait for their response. If they feel like they’re being “played” or aren’t interested in that, it’ll be pretty clear. And in that case, I’ll leave it and try to have an enjoyable conversation nevertheless. But it’s quite likely that I’ll have struck a chord, and I can let them sell it to themselves. (e.g. “that sounds good, Pete, how do you do that? …. Man I could do with that …. Etc.”)
Let’s try a different scenario: you’ve started your own printing business (business cards, stationary, party invites, etc). It’s a competitive market, so any chance at a new customer is to be taken.
You’re at a barbeque and you start chatting with another guy there. You ask him about his job, take an interest and he opens up. It turns out he’s the owner-manager of a small accounting firm. It sounds as if one of his struggles is getting people to take notice of him and even to remember him when they need an accountant’s services.
You take a chance and actually say to him “It sounds like people aren’t noticing you from among all the other accountants out there.”
“Ain’t that the truth”, he responds.
You don’t launch into your promo here. You keep talking. Eventually, he will ask you what you do. But now you have your point-of-connection.
Eventually he asks you about your job.
“Well, I basically help people get noticed.” You smile.
He chuckles and asks “What do you mean?”
“Well, in my experience, catchy design on brochures, business cards, logos makes people say Wow I gotta know more about that business. And that’s what I produce.”
Note so far that you’ve not just said “I’m a printer”. You’ve painted your own picture of how valuable your service is and hopefully you’re making the guy more curious about you.
Let him start asking you questions now. Or ask to see his business card and compliment it but show him ways it could be improved (chances are, he’s not going to take you ideas and do them himself: he can’t!)
Let me tell you that this approach, like any, is a little awkward the first couple of times, but then it seems to click. It stops you from having to repeat the same ol’ spiel hoping it works. Or just appearing irrelevant: when you simply say “I’m a printer” or “I’m a life coach”, people don’t tend to think “Oo, I need one of them!”. (They tend to think “…” -that’s empty space folks!). When you introduce yourself as someone who takes care of the kind of needs, hopes, goals they have, you are well on your way to a home run!
Let’s recap on this strategy:
- Discover you customer’s pain or need and find the way you take care of it
- take control of the conversation with new contacts to explore their world and look for problems/needs they need help with
- Describe your business/product in therms of meeting their needs or relieving their pain.
Remember, the one who asks the questions, controls the conversation.
Happy marketing!
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